Behaviors of Success & Failure - Stage Wise

 

List of Human Behaviors Stage Wise:
Stage 1 of Bad Behaviors & Good Behaviors. 

(Age Group: 0 to 13 Years)

1. Bad: Impatient | Good: Patience

2. Bad: Thanklessness | Good: Thankfulness

3. Bad: Rude | Good: Politeness

4. Bad: Bias | Good: Equality

5. Bad: Hate | Good: Love

6. Bad: Disrespect | Good: Respect

      7. Bad: Telling a Lye | Good: Telling the truth

     8. Bad: Anger | Good: Calm

     9. Bad: Using bad words | Good: Using Good Words

    10. Bad: Don’t Ashamed |  Good:  Ashamed

   11. Bad: Don’t say sorry | Good:  Say Sorry

   12. Bad: Greed | Good:  Satisfaction

   13. Bad: Sadness | Good:  Happiness

14. Bad: Dirty |  Good:  Cleanliness

    15. Bad: Wasting | Good: Correct use

    16. Bad: Mess | Good:  Arrangement

    17. Bad: Unhealthy diet | Good: Healthy diet

    18. Bad: Misconception | Good: Good Conception

    19. Bad: Lazy |  Good: Active

Stage 2 of Bad Behaviors and Good Behaviours: 
( Age Group: 14 to 18 Years)

1.    Bad: False Promise | Good: Fulfil Promise

2.    Bad: Backbiting | Good: Blessing

3.    Bad: Show off | Good: Sobriety

4.    Bad: Ego | Good: Humility

5.    Bad: Apathy | Good: Sympathy

6.    Bad: Dishonesty | Good: Honesty

7.    Bad: Miser | Good: Generosity

8.    Bad: Late | Good: In time

9.    Bad: Loneliness | Good: Amusement

10.  Bad: Less physical activity | Good: Enough physical activity

11.  Bad: Bad environment | Good: Good environment.

12.  Bad: Overconfidence | Good: Taking the opinion of the Right People

13.  Bad: Not learning Good Behavior | Good: Learn Good Behavior

14.  Bad: Not Teaching Good Behavior | Good: Teach Good Behavior

Stage 3 of Bad Behaviors and Good Behaviours (Habitual Stage):
( Age Group: 19 to 25 Years)

• If the Bad Behaviors of Stage 2 are not treated with good behaviors then the bad behaviors turn into Habits.  

• If the Bad Behaviors of Stage 2 are treated with good behaviours then the good behaviours turn into Habits.  

    1. Bad -Having no right motive in life |  Good: Having the right motive in life.

    2. Bad -Scattering the issues in life | Good: Careful in solving the issues in life.

    3. Bad -Planning or spending more than the income | Good: Planning or spending within the income
    4. Bad -Not doing the good work in a better way | Good: Doing good work in a better way.

    5. Bad -Not listening to parents or elders | Good: Listening to parents or elders.

    6. Bad -Having one's thinking and not listening to others | Good: Having learning capability and

taking suggestions from others.

    7. Bad: Staying away from the people who make good wishes | Good: Keep in touch with the people

who make good wishes.

    8. Bad: Mingling or keeping relations with bad People | Good: Keeping relations with good people

    9. Bad: Spending too much time on the badness | Good: Spending too much time on the goodness

    10. Bad: Talking to worthless people | Good: Talking to valuable people

    11. Bad: Enjoying the hostility of people | Good: Mediating among people

    12. Bad: Accumulating wealth than required  | Good: Accumulating wealth as required
    13. Bad: Thinking about own advantage at the time of helping others | Good: Thinking about others’

benefits at the time of helping others.
    14. Bad -Lust | Good: Satisfaction

Stage 4 A (Final Stage) of Bad Behaviors and Good Behaviours :
(Age Group: 26 Years and Above)

 Bad - Serious harm to himself: Once a person continuously indulges in bad behaviour as a habit then this habit turns into serious harm to himself. 

Good - Most beneficial to himself: Once a person continuously Practices good behaviour as a habit then this habit provides the most benefits to himself.

Name of Bad and Good Behaviours of Stage 4 A:

    1. Bad: Big loss of wealth or Business or To be in debt | Good: Secured Wealth.
    2. Bad: Being worn out | Good: Being happy
    3. Bad: Being sick due to anxiety or addiction | Good: Being healthy.
    4. Bad: Feeling to commit suicide | Good: Enjoy a Happy life
    5. Bad: Left alone during trouble | Good: Having good support during trouble.
    6. Bad: Living life with great difficulty in old age |  Good: Living life with enough facility of
happiness in old age 

Stage 4 B (Final Stage)of Bad Behaviors and Good Behaviours :

(Age Group: 26 Years and Above)

Bad - Serious harm to others: Once a person continuously indulges in bad behaviour as a habit then this habit turns into serious harm to others. 

Good - Most beneficial to others: Once a person continuously Practices good behaviour as a habit then this habit provides the most benefits to others

Name of Bad and Good Behaviours of Stage 4 B:

1. Bad: Cheating, stealing | Good: Faithfull, Protector

2.   Bad: Taking the wrong advantage of people's bad situations|

Good:  Helping people at the time of their bad situations.
   3.   Bad: Taking the rights of people | Good:  Giving the rights of people
   4.   Bad: Oppressing, Beating, and killing people | Good:  being kind.
   5.   Bad: Doing bad business | Good:  Doing good business.
   6.   Bad: Enmity, generation after generation | Good:  Friendship generation after Generation. 

  7.   Bad: Taking advantage of people’s enmity | Good:  Mediation.
   8.   Bad: Revenge, Excess in Taking Revenge | Good:  Forgiveness. Forgiveness of biggest mistake.

   9.   Bad: Megalomaniac | Good: Altruistic, Selfless, Philanthropic 

Note: the age group mentioned here is approximately and for ideas only.
 

 

Sociology of Real Success means the basic knowledge of the Sociology to achieve and maintain Real Success. 

That knowledge is as follows:

What is Sociology?

Sociology is the study of human social relationships and institutions. Sociology’s subject matter is diverse, ranging from crime to religion, from the family to the state, from the divisions of race and social class to the shared beliefs of a common culture, and from social stability to radical change in whole societies. Unifying the study of these diverse subjects of study is sociology’s purpose of understanding how human action and consciousness both shape and are shaped by surrounding cultural and social structures.

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What are moral values (humanity)?

Moral Values (Humanity) are such qualities of a human being with this human ability to find right and wrong.

Humanity is available inside every human from his childhood. But it changed due to the situation. Due to this problems and devastations comes into human life.

To maintain humanity humans need regular education, training, and practice. Due to this quality of humanity maintained inside the human being. It’s a kind of Value education to develop compassion inside humans, families, and society. After having compassion for each other only then people can have unity, politeness, respect, cooperation, and care for each other. So we can say the education of humanity means cultivating compassion through value education.

What is the Education of Moral Values / Education of Humanity?

Value education is the process of fostering essential values and morals in individuals in order to help them develop strong character and become responsible members of society. It is a holistic approach that encompasses an individual’s cognitive, affective, and behavioral aspects in order to develop their personal, social, and moral values.

Value education involves teaching fundamental principles such as respect, honesty, empathy, responsibility, compassion, and integrity, among others, which are important for a person’s personal and professional development. It also aids in the formation of an individual’s beliefs, attitudes, and behavioral patterns, resulting in positive social change and a better society.

To learn more please visit the site:

https://ishiksha.net/value-education/

Why Education of values (humanity) is necessary for a successful life?

Without understanding moral values (humanity), the person cannot understand anything about life. No matter how much success people achieve. Apart from this, humans may acquire any education but without the understanding of the Humanity / Good Value, no one can live with peace and happiness. He may become anything, even earn more wealth, fame, etc., but he cannot bring peace and happiness either in his life or among his parents and society.

 

Today, there is a little bit of peace and prosperity in somebody's life, family, and society, it's because some knowledge of Humanity is still available among humans.

Therefore it’s the duty of everyone to learn, teach, and work for moral values (Humanity) to the people of Society.

Names of the Education Schoolers and Institutions for Education of Humanity

1. Study of soul, Spirituality, and Religion.

This type of education teaches the people who are he, what is this world. What was he before coming into this world, why he came into this world, why is death and where will he go after the death?

After trying to get answer to these question human find the truth of life, he feel that any time he will leave this world.

With this humans can control the temptation and lust to achieve the world. People keep themselves in peace. Humanity comes in his inside, becoming compassionate for each other, and with this human life becomes happy.

2. Philosophy: Trying to find out the truth of life, ie. For self, for the world, the relation of humans with the world, the relation of each other, and about the natural system.
3. Sociology: To make better about human life and society.

Sociologist: He is the researcher and implements to make better to the society

Social Worker: Provide the solution to the people through help and cooperation.

Social welfare organization (NGO): Social worker work under these organizations,

World Organization of NGO - United Nations and organizations under this.

4. Psychology: Related to human behavior.

Psychiatric: When due for some reason people’s behaviors changed from normal behaviors then a psychiatric provides treatment through medicine

Psychologist: This also works as a psychiatrist but he treats the patient through therapy and meditation.

5. Value, Moral, Behaviour, character, and Ethics Education: This education provides through educational institutions
6. Life Coach, Motivational Speaker, and Spiritual Leader: These people are providing knowledge of humanity through their program.
7. Religious Education: Religious Place. Religious Organization.
8. Government Organization:

1. Court
2. Police
3. Municipality
4. Hospital
5. Educational Institutions
6. Welfare Department

How to make it easy for the education of moral values (humanity)?

In today's environment, there are more wrong messages gathered all around our society, so people are getting more wrong messages and a bad environment. These bad messages are coming in the form of entertainment also. Messages through entertainment become more effective to change people’s minds.

As long as a person remains awake, so much information constantly keeps coming into the mind of the person.

It is the nature of human what he listens, sees, and stay in which atmosphere their personality, behavior, and character will develop automatically accordingly.

In the world, millions of lectures, speeches, books, websites, and blogs are available for the subject of moral character and behavior education and also many teaching programs are going on for this subject.

But still, the education of humanity is going to decrease day by day.

The reason for this is that there is no strong organization for this work and also there is no strong system.

In the world, human beings are working very hard and diligently on all tasks like technology, machines, accessories, systems, etc. However, the bigger they have the advantages, the greater the loss is due to their misuse. If an immoral person works on these technologies, machines, accessories, systems, etc. then they will misuse them.

Therefore good organization is required for the education of humanity also.

Through it, ordinary human beings could easily learn morality and also bring morality to others. It could easily be taught as a syllabus in schools.

With this, people could easily benefit each other by doing social work in their villages or colonies, people could bring peace and happiness to their own life, family, village, Nation, and the whole world.

Similarly, the program of Moral Education also needs more improvement with whom people could get more and more moral messages from all sides.

The remedy for this is to create a good environment through Moral Education and Social Work in the family, Village, sector, school, Organization, and other places.  The environment should be so powerful that it should eradicate the bad environment. Whatever means of information are available from there more and more messages of morality should spread.

In addition to providing Moral Education, the kids should be given small social works also which will provide them entertainment and as well as generates interest also.

There should be arrangements for Moral Education and Social Work programs in every village and colony. To generate such kind of environment of work which generates passion in people and they do the work with great interest and the benefits of this moral work must be explained very well to the people.

 Psychology of Real Success means the basic knowledge of psychology to achieve and maintain Real Success. 

That knowledge is as follows:

Why is basic knowledge of psychology essential to achieve and maintaining real success?

Psychological diseases are a very big issue among human beings. Because often patients themselves and their families don't accept it in the minor state. Mostly when it goes to a very critical stage and disturbed patients and their family’s life then it's understood.

Therefore, people needed a basic essential knowledge of psychology to find out Psychological problems to get treatment before the situation became worse and out of control. Also to take precautions to not have psychological problems in future.

What is Psychology?

Psychology means knowledge of the Soul. Today, psychology is concerned with the science or study of the mind and behaviour.

What are Psychological Disorders?

Psychological Disorder is the name of psychological problems in psychological terms.

What is a Chemical imbalance in the brain?

It happens if certain chemicals inside the brain become either too much or too little.

Mental health conditions, such as depression and anxiety, are caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain.

What is the procedure for the Diagnosis & Treatment of psychological patients?

There are two types of Psychological Doctors:

• 1. Psychiatrists.
• 2. Psychologist or psychological counsellor.

For proper treatment, you should consult with both doctors.

Some brief information about diagnosis and treatment procedures:

1.     Psychiatrists are medical doctors. Suitable for the patient who has critical problems of panic attacks, societal feelings, etc.

Diagnosis procedure of Psychiatrists: through brief counselling, psychological and medical condition of the patient, etc.

The treatment procedure of Psychiatrists: through medicine, brief counselling and brief therapy, Etc.

2.     Psychologists or Psychological Counsellors: They are a Master’s or PhD in Psychology and specialized in counselling and psychological therapy.

Diagnosis procedure of the psychologist: Through counselling, patients body language, daily activity, and behaviours with family, friends and society, life history and talking to their family members and friends, etc. As per the diagnosis they treat the patient through the following techniques:     

•  Psychological counselling.
•  Cognitive behaviour therapy.
•  Hypnotherapy.
•  Other Relaxation therapy.
•  Etc. 

Normal people also get counselling for family disputes, education planning for children, critical confusion, etc.

Psychological patients require proper support from family and society to recover permanently and have a peaceful happy and successful life.

How does basic essential knowledge of psychology help to achieve and maintain real success?

As per psychology, a successful person means a mentally healthy person. And a person becomes mentally healthy if he has the balance of happy chemicals. Examples: Serotonin, Dopamine, Endorphins, and Oxytocin. Psychology proves happiness means the balance of happy chemicals.

How people will keep the balance of happy chemicals naturally?

Here you have to take the help of sociology. If you go for a deep study then you will find in general these chemicals become in balance if people have a compassionate society. This means that the majority of the people in society are educated about good behaviour and implementing good behaviour, cooperation, compassion and charity. Then automatic individuals have real success.

This environment of society provides security about Basic needs, for example, Food, Cloth, Shelter, Treatment, Good Family Life, and Good Social Life. The surety will be during natural disasters, financial problems, sickness, old age, and other helplessness also.

This is your real success and you will have it after regular practice of learning, teaching, and working on moral values (humanity) among families and society.

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 What is real success?

Real Success means: Assurance of basic needs such as food, clothing, shelter, medical treatment, a good family life, and a good social life.

This assurance should extend to times of natural disasters, financial crises, illness, old age, and other forms of vulnerability.

Humans can achieve this assurance through consistent efforts in implementing these five responsibilities in their personal, family, and social lives, which are as follows:

1. Believing in your Creator and striving for education to uphold this belief.

2. Calling others towards goodness.

3. Stopping from committing bad deeds.

4. Helping one another during difficult times.

5. Working towards creating an environment for these four responsibilities in one's home, surrounding society, and the entire world, with the intention to continue making efforts according to one's ability, until one's utmost limit.

For a successful life, why are these five responsibilities necessary?

Naturally, human life is successful, except for very few natural problems.

Because if we see the whole population of the world and the needs of those, then see goods, services, solutions, and professionals to fulfill those needs then divide on humanity’s ground then we will find whatever goods, services, solutions, and professionals are available in this world those are enough to fulfill all the human population of the world for their happy life.

If there were a compassionate society people would be weak, sick, and handicapped but not helpless, people have sad but there will be compassionate people to share their sadness, people will have losses but there will be people to fulfill their losses, the need of people will be fulfilled on the basis of reasonable cost, if people will be unable to pay then the need of helpless people will be fulfilled by help.

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What Are the Fundamental Responsibilities of Muslims and All Humans for Prosperity in This World and Success After Death?

Nature has inherently created every human being to prosper in this world, this prosperity is only achieved when individuals fulfil the responsibilities prescribed by nature to bring prosperity to the world. This is why all the religions of the world and books of wisdom have greatly emphasized these responsibilities.

The reality is that whether Muslims who confine themselves to the five pillars of Islam or followers of other religions who restrict themselves to worship and charity alone—the state of prosperity in their families, societies, and nations is evident before us.

By referring to the Quran, major religions of the world, philosophy, psychology, sociology, science, and basic logic, the fundamental responsibilities for prosperity in this world can be summarized into five responsibilities, of which the fifth responsibility is the most important.

The Five Responsibilities Are as Follows:

1. Believing in your Creator and striving for education to uphold this belief.

2. Calling others towards goodness.

3. Stopping from committing bad deeds.

4. Helping one another during difficult times.

5. Working towards creating an environment for these four responsibilities in one's home, surrounding society, and the entire world, with the intention to continue making efforts according to one's ability, until one's utmost limit.

Responsibility 1 relates to spiritual well-being, while responsibilities 2, 3, 4, and 5 are linked to prosperity in this world.

Often, whether a person is a Muslim or follows another religion, they create an environment based on Responsibility No. 1 in search of prosperity in this world, which is impossible, as the evidence of this is before all of us.

These five responsibilities, especially the fifth one, are supported by several key verses of the Quran:

1. Khilafat (Stewardship):

Surah Al-Baqarah (2 of 30):
“And when your Lord said to the angels, ‘Indeed, I will make upon the earth a  Khalifa (Steward).’”

2. Commanding good and Stopping from committing bad deeds:

Surah Aal-e-Imran (3 of 110):
“You are the best nation (Human) chosen for people (of the whole world); you promote good and prevent bad..”

3. Working collectively towards goodness:

Surah Aal-e-Imran (3 of 104):
“And there should be a group among you that invites goodness.”

4. Encouraging one another in righteousness:

Surah Al-Asr (1 to 3 of 103):
“By the time, indeed, mankind is in loss, except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.”

The first verse alone which is about khilafat ( Stewardship) should make it clear that every human being has the responsibility to work tirelessly for the prosperity of all humanity, regardless of their religion.

Remember, all religious texts aim for the prosperity of all humanity, irrespective of whether one follows that religion or not.

Who Fails to Embrace These Qualities?

The Quran mentions:

• Surah Al-A'raf (7 of 179):

“And We have certainly created for Hell many of the jinn and mankind. They have hearts with which they do not understand, eyes with which they do not see, and ears with which they do not hear. Those are like livestock; rather, they are more astray. It is they who are the heedless.”

Here this verse ends.

If someone is in such a state, they must immediately strive to come out of it because the truth has now reached them.

The Urgency of These Responsibilities

Today, the purpose of bringing these points to your attention is to highlight that we all know how unbearable it is to see ourselves or our loved ones helpless and suffering. Unfortunately, this helplessness has already begun to take root and is knocking on every door. It manifests in various forms, such as huge economic crises, unexpected diseases, widespread hatred, the dangerous mixing of harmful substances in food products, rampant dishonesty among buyers, sellers, employees, and employers, disobedient children and irresponsible parents, an increase in crime, political ineffectiveness, civil wars, environmental devastation, world wars, and the threat of nuclear conflict, and in addition to all of these, there are countless situations of hardship and destruction. The root cause of all these issues is that we only adopt the first responsibility of our religion while ignoring the other four essential responsibilities.

When humans were first given the responsibility of Khilafat (stewardship) it was this very envy that turned Iblis into Satan  (Devil).  If we neglect this responsibility, Satan (the Devil) will triumph, and we will face ruin both in this world and the hereafter.

"Remember, the religious leaders sent by nature, who sacrifice their lives for humanity and teach you the lessons of humanity, are not there for you to merely remember them, wear clothes like theirs, or hold processions or gatherings in their names. They are there to guide you to act like them."

Every human is born pure and innocent; it is Satan (Devil) who corrupts them. We must look at each other with the eyes of innocence and treat one another with kindness and compassion.

A Call to Action

Let us all fulfil the responsibility of being stewards (Khalifas) of this world with sincerity, defeat Satan (Devil), and present ourselves as successful before our Creator. Let us eradicate hatred, wholeheartedly forgive one another, and adopt the responsibilities that bring prosperity to the world.

Begin with the fifth responsibility in your homes and places of worship. Serving humanity after worship is also a form of worship.

You must verify the truth of what I have shared. If these words are proven true and you do not incorporate them into your life, you will be guilty of neglecting humanity in this world and will face severe questioning on the Day of Judgment.

I humbly request your guidance if there are any shortcomings in my words.

Thank you very much.

Until you have a problem understanding this content then I refer you to our Story “The Fifth Responsibility” which is available on my YouTube channel and Blog: “Right Ways for Real Success” Right Ways for Happy Life 

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